You know that feeling when you talk to someone and when you leave the conversation you only then realize that something they said unexpectedly made you upset.
Well that happened to me today. My friends and I were talking like normal and someone said something. At first I didn’t think anything of it, and didn’t over think it. Once I left lunch and went on my way I started to think about it more and the more I thought about it the more I realized that what they had said was wrong. But what am I supposed to do now, confront them? It’s not like I know the exact thinking behind their statement so I can’t bring it up again or accuse them of something they didn’t mean, right? Maybe they didn’t mean it the way that I thought and I do over think things way too often. But honestly no matter how they meant it, it still sounded a certain way to me and they don’t know how other people would take it so should they have said it at all? I am confused about this topic and what to do next. I mean how would anyone else handle this? No else at our table seemed to think anything of the statement so should I just let it go and forget about it?
Until next time…
~ hiddengirl75 very confused
Wandering with me 