Labels Clarification

So when I wrote the poem that was how I felt people saw me, however it isn’t always like that anymore around my friends or other people. But the poem matched with the “Labels” theme so I decided to post it.

~ hiddengirl75

Posted in Books, Talking Story

Would Recommend

Almost Impossible

Go read this book. I loved it. It had many twists and turns and I fell in love with the characters. The quote posted before came from this book. I really like the quote because I wish that was how the world was and that I didn’t have a label. So I encourage you to go read this book. I understand if it’s not your thing but I liked it and I think it has a good message behind it.

~ hiddengirl75

Posted in Music, Talking Story

English?! 뭐?!

Omg, I found this amazing song and I absolutely love it! I can not gush more about it. It’s so cute and innocent. I live the lyrics, the singer’s voice and the beat. It’s my new favorite song and guess what, it’s in English. Which is a weird thought because I have been listening to mainly k-pop(Seventeen) or k-rock (DAY6). So anyway it’s called “would you be so kind” it’s by dodie. I adore this song and I recommend it to everyone. I also find it interesting to read the comment section on YouTube because it’s so sweet, with lots of people being like “100 likes and I’ll send this to my crush.” Then they do and it’s kind of sad when they get regected but so cute when they say “I sent this to my crush and now we’re dating.” It’s absolutely adorable. I give those people props for sending it to their crushes. I honestly would never do that. Anyway, go listen to the song. I hope you like it.

~ hiddengirl75

Posted in Talking Story

Compliments

So today someone told me that I was the nicest person ever and it just made my day. I don’t feel like I get nice compliments randomly from random people, so this comment just made me feel so happy.

Honestly sometimes I think that we should just be nice to people constantly and give out random compliments because you never know if it’s going to make that person’s day. I hope to make it my daily goal to complement someone, whether I know them or not. Maybe it will be a simple, “I love your hair” or “I love your shoes.” But you never know maybe that person just needed a little bit of attention that no one else gives them.

That is also my challenge to you, compliment someone and genuinely mean it. Please don’t go giving around empty compliments, sure it might have the same effect on them but will it affect you in the same happy way?

~ hiddengirl75

Posted in Music, Talking Story

Favorite Artists and Groups

First off, I am a huge K-pop fan. Honestly, I love the music, the lyrics and meanings behind the songs. I like how K-pop idols care and value their fans. Finally, I like how much effort that K-pop idols put into their work.

I listen to other music occasionally but most of my music is K-pop or in Korean. Don’t get me wrong some American (English) music is great but I don’t think that many of the songs have much meaning other then revenge and broken relationships or lewd meanings. 

My favorite K-pop group is called Seventeen. They may not be as popular as BTS but they deserve so much more attention. Don’t get me wrong I like BTS and honestly I started off stanning  BTS but I found Seventeen and then I started stanning them. Seventeen is such a talented group, the rappers sing, the singers rap and they all can dance. I would highly recommend listening to some of their songs and watching a few of their live performances, their dance skills will amaze you.

I think that it is amazing how much K-pop idols love and cherish their fans. Most groups have songs dedicated to their fans and always remember to thank their fans at award shows. I honestly can’t say that American artists don’t treat their fans well because I haven’t really kept up with that but I think that they don’t value their fans as much as K-pop idols do.  Another difference is that many K-pop idols wait for years training, perfecting themselves so that they can debut.

I have a lot of respect for K-pop idols because of the amount of work and effort they put into their careers.  Majority of idols spent years as trainees before debuting, which meant years away from their families and even more time away as they debut. I don’t think that many artists from the U.S have to go through anything as grueling as leaving your family and friends so that they could become artists. I think this adds to the amount of effort that idols put into their work because they truly understand how privileged they are to have debutted.

Like I said before I do listen to some English music but not as much as I did before I fell into the K-pop hole. Before I was into K-pop, I listened to Meghan Trainer, Ed Sheeran, and other artists that I can’t remember. Now I don’t have any particular artists that I listen to often, but I do have favorite songs that I will put into a different post.

And that’s the end folks.  Now you know that I like K-pop and who my favorite group is.  I hope that you continue to read my posts so until we met again. Good bye.

~ hiddengirl75

Posted in Talking Story

A few moments later

You know that feeling when you talk to someone and when you leave the conversation you only then realize that something they said unexpectedly made you upset.

Well that happened to me today. My friends and I were talking like normal and someone said something. At first I didn’t think anything of it, and didn’t over think it. Once I left lunch and went on my way I started to think about it more and the more I thought about it the more I realized that what they had said was wrong. But what am I supposed to do now, confront them? It’s not like I know the exact thinking behind their statement so I can’t bring it up again or accuse them of something they didn’t mean, right? Maybe they didn’t mean it the way that I thought and I do over think things way too often. But honestly no matter how they meant it, it still sounded a certain way to me and they don’t know how other people would take it so should they have said it at all? I am confused about this topic and what to do next. I mean how would anyone else handle this? No else at our table seemed to think anything of the statement so should I just let it go and forget about it?

Until next time…

~ hiddengirl75 very confused

Posted in Books, Talking Story

Favorite books and series

So from my about me post you have probably deducted that I like reading. However please don’t think that because I like reading that’s all I do, many of my friends seem to think that my only interest is reading. They have labeled me as a bookworm and overachiever. Honestly it kind of hurts when people think that’s all I do, but that topic is for another post. So let’s continue…

Favorites

What is the definition of favorite? Is it something that you like too much? Is it something that you always chose when you have a choice? To be honest I have problems when picking favorite books or series.

It really isn’t that hard for me to like a book, majority of the time I love every book I read so it is hard to pick a favorite. If you asked me what my favorite book is I would probably tell you the most recent book I read. If I was in my sci-fi stage I would say the latest sci-fi book I had read. However if you ever wanted to get a super clear answer from me you would have to be more specific, asking me questions such as: What is you favorite (genre) book? If you aren’t to the point you might not get a certain or clear answer.

Favorite Books and series

Sci-fi: Honor Among Thieves by Ann Agurrie and Rachel Caine or The vault of dreamers by Caragh M. O’Brien

Fantasy: Deep Blue (Waterfire saga) by Jennifer Donnelly

Realistic Fiction: Teach me to forget by Erica M. Chapman (I have a LOT of realistic fiction faves but this is my most recent fave, it made me cry a lot.)

Dystopian: The selection by Kiera Cass (I absolutely love this series and the rest of Cass’s work.) or Red Queen by Victoria Aveyard

Honestly I have way too many favorite books, I simply can’t decide but on the spot these are probably the books that I would think of. I wish I could have listed all my favorite books but that is simply too long of a list. To be completely truthful I don’t remember why I liked certain books because it was such a long time ago that I read it.

Until next time…

~hiddengirl75